I read several dozen stories a year from miserable, lonely guys who insist that women won’t come near them despite the fact that they are just the nicest guys in the world.
..I’m asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don’t say that you’re a nice guy — that’s the bare minimum.
“Well, I’m not sexist or racist or greedy or shallow or abusive! Not like those other douchebags!”
I’m sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don’t have, then back the fuck away..
..Don’t complain about how girls fall for jerks; they fall for those jerks because those jerks have other things they can offer. “But I’m a great listener!” Are you? Because you’re willing to sit quietly in exchange for the chance to be in the proximity of a pretty girl (and spend every second imagining how soft her skin must be)? Well guess what, there’s another guy in her life who also knows how to do that, and he can play the guitar. Saying that you’re a nice guy is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn’t make you sick. You’re like a new movie whose title is This Movie Is in English, and its tagline is “The actors are clearly visible”.”
ive always told myself that id never isolate myself from my friends because ive seen it happen to so many people and nothing good ever comes out of it but im Doing it now i know im doing it but i don’t know how to not and i just can’t bring myself to see anyone. and i think my sadness has travelled to my stomach because im not comfortable if im not curled up in a ball and im just sorry. i think i got so used to being by myself that im not comfortable with being with other people anymore
i never said the things i wrote were interesting i just had more ideas and wrote more lol so don’t get excited.. I’ve already posted a couple things that I had written for the class if u feel like sifting through my tagged/me